Let's get the party started

This advice column has the notice that it may have adult content because I want to be able to answer questions without much if any censoring. However, it is going to be kept at generally a PG-13 level. I will try to publish questions daily, but the amount of questions will vary depending of course on how many are received. Questions can be on friendships, romance, employment and anything else that you wish to ask. Answers are meant to help and entertain.

Away we go!

Dude,


Haven't seen someone in 20 years and we are meeting in SD. What is he thinking?


From,

Reuniting and not Sure if it Will Feel so Good


Reuniting,

Depends on the relationship you had before, but if a man is meeting someone from 20 years ago he is likely hoping for sex to result sometime. Pay attention to how he acts at your meeting more than the words he says to truly tell what he wants. Be intimate with him only if that is truly what you want and not because you think it will lead to something else.

Dude

Advice with a Side of Testosterone

My parents always received the local newspaper when I was growing up. One of my favorite parts of the paper, besides the sports page, was and continues to be the advice columns. The ones I grew up with were Dear Abby and Ask Ann Landers. More recently I started reading a column called Ask Amy. All the columnists happen to be women. I would like to read a column written by a male and why not write it myself.

I don't claim to be a psychologist or some sort of life expert. What I have been told is that I am a good listener and many times people have shared more with me than they thought they would. Any advice I give will be just my opinion, but I think I can be helpful.

What I ask of my readers is that you send in questions from you, friends, family, or complete strangers and I will pick out a few to answer in each post. Keep the questions anonymous thus changing names for the not so innocent and you don't need to tell me it happened to you. Send the questions to whatdudeyou@gmail.com. This will be an interesting experiment, let's see how it goes!